Have You Heard "Rules From The Mens Side" ?
Q. Rules from the male side men are from Mars or another weird planet/place: We always hear "the rules" from the female side. Now here are the rules from the male side. These are our rules! Please note ... these are all numbered "1" on purpose! 1. Learn to work the toilet seat. You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down. You can handle it. We need it up, you need it down. You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down. 1. Sunday = sports. It's like the full moon. Let it be. 1. Crying is blackmail. 1. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one. Subtle hints do not work! Strong hints do not work! Obvious hints do not work! Just say it! 1. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.… [cont.]
Asked by Snidely - Fri Jul 18 07:07:12 2008 - Jokes & Riddles - 7 Answers - Comments

A. Ha ha ha ha... Very Good. I was wondering where I could find a "cheat sheet" like this. Funny...but true too... Us guys need ALL the help we can get. We sublimate and procrastinate... but... when you get right down to it... There has to be an easier way. He he he he...
Answered by Northern Explorer - Fri Jul 18 17:10:50 2008

"Instinct" or ignorant unfair "thumb rule" for women to label men with "?" factor a "creep/weirdo"?
Q. I'm a guy and generally am a loner. I've seen alot of bad intentions bad sides to people. I'm always guarded but also have a stoic appearance. I'm a nice guy...but my face isn't naturally as expressive as most people. B/c of this I often catch alot of unnecessary harsh treatment from women. What I'm starting to believe is that most women are genuinely ignorant(literally) or feel it's okay to mistreat/be overly defensive to the point of being offensive to men with a "?" factor. I'm not a mean person...but I usually walk around, mind by business, and don't pay attention or care how my face lacks expression. B/c of this...based on my expereinces...I honestly believe most women generall put more importance on mens appearance than men… [cont.]
Asked by MrRyan - Thu Mar 11 13:30:57 2010 - Singles & Dating - 3 Answers - Comments

A. I've found that a certain types of woman are prone to fear (some have had abuse issues in the past) these women are often professional types who are very submissive in relationships..(yes women) who can't say no to things and avoid potential confrontations of any kind.
Answered by Life: *is it over yet?* - Thu Mar 11 13:38:42 2010

The Mens Rules.?
Q. At last a guy has taken the time to write this all down. Finally, the guys' side of the story. (I must admit, it's pretty good). We always hear "the rules" from the female point of view... Now here are the rules from the male side. These are our rules! Please note... these are all numbered "1" on purpose! 1. Men ARE NOT mind readers. 1. Learn to work the toilet seat. You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down. We need it up, you need it down. You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down. 1. Sunday sports. It's like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be. 1. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no, we are never going to think of it that way. 1. Crying is blackmail. 1. Ask for what you want. Let us be… [cont.]
Asked by little kitty - Wed Sep 12 10:29:25 2007 - Other - Entertainment - 10 Answers - Comments

A. I read and gave this a star before, and today shall be no different. very good
Answered by James M - Wed Sep 12 10:37:19 2007

do you want to hear the mens rules?
Q. The Guy's Rules At last a guy has taken the time to write this all down Finally , the guys' side of the story. ( I must admit, it's pretty good.) We always hear " the rules " From the female side. Now here are the rules from the male side. These are our rules! Please note.. these are all numbered "1" on purpose! 1. Men are NOT mind readers. 1. Learn to work the toilet seat. You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down. We need it up, you need it down. You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down. 1. Sunday sports It's like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be. 1. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no, we are never going to think of it that way. 1. Crying is blackmail. 1. Ask for what you want. Let us… [cont.]
Asked by Eye of the Beholder - Wed Apr 2 10:13:09 2008 - Jokes & Riddles - 13 Answers - Comments

A. this is gold, i swear this is a MUST in all school these days. another thing that needs to be taught is, the only reson we listen is so u will shut up sooner. consistant nagging gets annoying sometimes and just makes you not wanna do it more =P
Answered by FaPSLN iN2 MiSScHieF - Wed Apr 2 10:29:24 2008

Are these the mens rules ?
Q. We always hear "the rules" from the female side. Now here are the rules from the male side. These are our rules! 1. Learn to work the toilet seat. You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down. We need it up, you need it down. You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down. 2. Sunday = sports. It's like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be. 3. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no, we are never going to think of it that way. 4. Crying is blackmail. 5. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one: Subtle hints do not work! Strong hints do not work! Obvious hints do not work! Just say it! 6. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question 7. Come to us with a problem only if you want help… [cont.]
Asked by Jake5282 - Thu Feb 14 04:29:44 2008 - Jokes & Riddles - 29 Answers - Comments

A. gr8 joke. i tried to email debbie, but she does not permit email. probably hiding her bald head behind the "no image" of her profile. sad that some ass holes go thru the jokes section and pass comments such as she did. tsk tsk. keep em coming Jake ! kudos! j
Answered by Jovial D'Souza - Thu Feb 14 07:53:39 2008

Rules on Playing the "GAME" OF love?
Q. Hi all I am trying to put to together a list of rules for women on how to play the game... I want mens and womens rules on how to get the man that you want I have only two so far... 1: Be a *** Tease not a whore (Being the easy girl on the street gets you no respect sure everyone wants to *** you but they know that it isnt a hard task) The other one I will post after I get a few answers... Thanks everyone
Asked by redsoxfan821 - Tue Feb 12 12:53:38 2008 - Other - Society & Culture - 2 Answers - Comments

A. From a mans perspective: 1. Treat a Lady with total respect and courtesy; 2. Whether dating or more serious, be loyal to her; 3. Be the Knight in shining armor; 4. Be an attentive and creative lover.
Answered by Draco - Tue Feb 12 13:43:29 2008

Do you justify muslim woman wearing " burqa "?
Q. It is a pity even some muslim wemen believe that wearing the burqa is to protect their chastity. Muslim scholars agree "When we said women should not do somethings, it's not because they are less worthy or unequal to men, but because they have different, equally important, roles in society," But who are they to deside what woman should do if woman is the equally important then they themselves are capable of taking their own decisions. In few countries womens are not allowed in the mosqu for the prayers as when they bow down their head touching the ground their buttocks rises up and it distracts men. But nothing said about wemen not getting distracted doing the same among so many men. Mens distraction is not wemens problem it is… [cont.]
Asked by razor's edge - Tue Aug 31 22:56:50 2010 - Philosophy - 16 Answers - Comments

A. - Why is it unjust to require women to wear a Burqa, but not unjust to require women to wear a bathing suit top? Both are responses to cultural bias. Both impose actions on females for male urges and temptations. One can't bash another's cultural preference while having similar taboos of their own.
Answered by Houston, we have a problem - Tue Aug 31 23:16:07 2010

will women rise and will men fall in the future?
Q. i was out in my back yard looking at a wasp nest, yeah this makes no sense so far but hear me out... i i know most insects follow a matriarchy(bees, wasp, spiders and ants) i know you can't compare humans to insects but i was thinking about the future, you think its possible for women to rule the planet and man. i know your gonna say"all women can do is make food and they can't run a government because it would collapse right away." that's BS women have come a LONG way these past 100 years and they are at the point where they have the opportunity run for president or fight in the military. women aren't these sassy figures anymore. women in todays world are intelligent, resourceful and strong. even as a male i wonder if they can… [cont.]
Asked by - Mon Aug 16 22:42:08 2010 - Gender & Women's Studies - 7 Answers - Comments

A. Feminists would like to see the world go this way. However women will have to find a way of having a full career without having to take time out for a family - you can't have it all. Edit "Meek will inherit the earth." If you think women today are meek - especially feminists - then you need to get out more.
Answered by Doodlebugjimv12 - Tue Aug 17 00:00:07 2010

MENS' RULES. would you like to read part two?
Q. 11.If you won't dress like the Victoria's Secret girls, don't expect us to act like soap opera guys. 12. If you think you're fat, you probably are.Don't ask us. 13. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one 14.You can either ask us to do something Or tell us how you want it done.Not both.If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself. 15. Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during commercials. 16. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we. 17. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings. Peach, for example, is a fruit, not A color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is. 18. If it… [cont.]
Asked by Wicked Witch of Yorkshire - Thu Nov 2 13:04:33 2006 - Polls & Surveys - 13 Answers - Comments

A. I was reading these to my my husband and he not only agrees but on the last on he said thank you. GUYS!
Answered by Celeste P - Thu Nov 2 13:12:10 2006

Which proverb do you like best for a tattoo?
Q. Tattoo quotes: 1. "Del male non fare e paura non avere." Translation: "Do no evil and have no fear." 2. "Finche c'e vita c'e speranza." 1. Translation: "Where there's life, there's hope." 3. Vi Veri Veniversum Vivus Vici Translation: "By the power of truth, I, while living, have conquered the universe." 4. Ubicumque Felix Translation: "Always happy" 5. Sic Itur Ad Astra Translation: "Thus do we reach the stars 6. Sapiens dominabitur astris. 7. Translation: "A wise (man) will rule (or possibly, be ruled by) the stars." 8. Omnia vincit amor Translation: "Love conquers all" More fully, Omnia vincit amor, et nos cedamus amori: "Love conquers all, let us… [cont.]
Asked by Rob - Thu Sep 9 14:56:48 2010 - Tattoos - 7 Answers - Comments

A. No man is rich enough to buy back his past. Fortune favors the prepared mind...
Answered by Clamshell 19 - Thu Sep 9 16:52:19 2010

Do women attendants belong in the mens room?
Q. On a recent cruise boat trip, I used the mens changing / steam room next to the gym. I was surprised to see a women attendant standing there staring at the naked men coming from the shower / steam room. Many men were uncomfortable with this and asked her why she was there? She said "It was her job". They asked her if there was a male attendant in the women's room and she replied, "Of course not!" She got a lot of comments about getting an eye full and how improper it was, but it did not change her stand. !! Now watch how quick this question gets deleted, because it makes women very uncomfortable answering to the excessive liberties they have taken, not because it violates any answers rules. What do you think of their… [cont.]
Asked by Bourdon16 - Sun Nov 15 20:37:51 2009 - Other - Family & Relationships - 1 Answers - Comments

A. Yeah! That's all women want to do, is stand around and stare at man meat! ARG! You should have thrown her out!!
Answered by Jay Sharky - Wed Nov 18 06:19:07 2009

MEN, a question about a man's actions vs. words?
Q. I'd really like to get mature mens' answers to this question. I'm married to a wonderful man for several years. Here's the thing, tho: He's not so much about expressing his love in words -- i.e., I guess he might be the typical non-emotional man. He says it, but nowhere near as often as I'd like him to. I mean, he says it kind of casually some days like when he goes off to work, for example, like: "Have a good day, love ya." But, again, it's casual sounding. However, he makes very much sure I am taken care of in many ways. You name it, he does it. (takes car of my car, fixes things for me, buys stuff for me, etc. & just so there's no confusion: We both work -- not just him). But whenever I say to him, "you don't say you… [cont.]
Asked by Mari - Sun Aug 15 13:55:06 2010 - Marriage & Divorce - 13 Answers - Comments

A. There are several love languages. Yours is compliments... well, sorta. You need to 'hear' love and acceptance. Your man's love language is service. He needs you to 'demonstrate by doing stuff for him' that you love him. Do a search on the love languages. Explain to your man that when he demonstrates love for you, that you appreciate it, but it's like you buying a pretty purse for him. He is telling you he loves you HIS way and not the way you need to hear it. If he bought you power tools and you bought him purses, both of you would think the whole thing was crazy. Well, that is what is happening. He is buying you a power tool, more or less. He is telling you he loves you in a way that HE would like to be told. He has to understand that you… [cont.]
Answered by Simpleton44 - Sun Aug 15 14:30:00 2010

Do black men like women more than white men (Longg question, just warning you)?
Q. I went to a school once which was very multiracial, there was 5 guys in the class, 2 white guys and 3 black guys, one of the white guys was gay, the other hated women, one day we had to clean the class room and the white guy said "No I'm not cleaning, That's a woman's job!" and one of the black guys even said to him "Shut up with your sexism, Your making yourself look stupid, Grow up!" I've dated tons of guys (all white) they all hate women which is a huge turn off for me. Even in Playboy (A premotely white magazine, Black people read King magazine more) They made a list of women they would like to "HATE F*CK!". I highly doubt King magazine will come out with something like that. Ever. My white male friends… [cont.]
Asked by Kelsey - Wed Mar 17 17:26:01 2010 - Adolescent - 6 Answers - Comments

A. I partly agree with you But not all white men are bad, take another look if i were you. Anyway, people say that women's and colored peoples rights are getting better but they're still pretty awful. White Men think that they're the dominant ones and its just not fair. I also agree with you about the keeping up with the Kardashians thing (love that show) the white mans just a hopeless drunk. All the best R & B and Rap all comes from black men. In the past we have neglected and tortured black people yet they still respect us. Well done for bringing this up but honestly its not much of a question
Answered by Rochelle S - Wed Mar 17 17:40:35 2010

Did I over-react in the mens shower room at the gym? Should I have waited until I was dressed to fight?
Q. Looking back in hindsight, I think I once again rushed to conclusions and may have over reacted slightly. Let me explain, no there is too much, let me sum up. After a long workout, I headed over to the showers. There are 10 showerheads in there. When I entered, there were only 2 other men in there. So, following the unwritten rule of using every other shower unless impossible, I distanced myself from the other 2 men. Minutes later, another guy comes in and showers right next to me!! There were 3 other showers between us. I could tell out of the corner of my eye he was trying to catch a peek at the package. I decided to hurray up, and in my haste , I dropped my travel size soap/shampoo bottle. As I bent over to pick it up, I heard him say... [cont.]
Asked by Ted M. P. aka Manchild - Sat Aug 29 21:21:38 2009 - Polls & Surveys - 17 Answers - Comments

A. just wondering what would u do if I dropped something in the shower :)
Answered by not me :) - Sat Aug 29 21:25:42 2009

why do men degrade women and some women degrade themselves!?
Q. I think its getting worst and worst with time commercials, music videos, magazines in everything a girl almost always has to come out half naked so it can have popularity and success because it needs "mens" attention and being Hispanic myself I noticed that alot of Spanish channels have to show a girl in a thong and bra or with tiny skirts shaking their asses. Such as Doce Corazones, Sabado Gigante... Even comedy shows in Spanish have to show women in slutty outfits its like a rule. Also strippers, prostitutes, and female porn stars all degrading themselves. Rappers make songs about women referring to all of us as "sluts" or "hoes" its not right... There are still decent women out there and I hate how men put… [cont.]
Asked by Jennifer - Mon Oct 19 17:38:35 2009 - Gender & Women's Studies - 11 Answers - Comments

A. You're about a million years too late, feminism has already been invented. Hell I could start complaining about how gays are so incredibly mistreated but that's old hat and mostly untrue as well.
Answered by xexxhoshi - Mon Oct 19 17:44:14 2009

Heeey Womens, do you know the bible teaching on how mens should treat you?
Q. Exodus 21 7 "If a man sells his daughter as a servant, she is not to go free as menservants do. 8 If she does not please the master who has selected her for himself, [b] he must let her be redeemed. Genesis 3 16 To the woman he said, "I will greatly increase your pains in childbearing; with pain ... Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you." Deuteronomy 25 11 If two men are fighting and the wife of one of them comes to rescue her husband from his assailant, and she reaches out and seizes him by his private parts, 12 you shall cut off her hand. Show her no pity. 1 Corinthians 14 34women should remain silent in the churches. they are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the Law says. 35If… [cont.]
Asked by Handsome Johnny - Fri May 2 23:57:32 2008 - Religion & Spirituality - 21 Answers - Comments

A. Yes, I'm quite familiar with the Bible's view on how women should be treated by men, specifically how a husband is to treat his wife. She is to receive agape love from her husband, this is the conscious kind of love (as opposed to just the warm fuzzy kind), choosing to behave lovingly even when it hurts your own fleshly desires---sacrificial love as Christ so loved/loves the church. Wow. Now that's some kind of wonderful. Blessings.
Answered by child of God - Sat May 3 00:09:53 2008

What Should She Think of This?! (Asian Mens' Opinions Would Be Particularly Helpful)?
Q. Long, but please please read through. Desperately would love some of the general public's advice. Well, two months ago, I got out of a long-term relationship. My friend came to me with this question, but I don't feel like I'm in a position to be giving advice at this point, so we're putting the question out here. Opinions and feedback will be truly appreciated! She's 22 and has been going out for about a year with a Japanese man. He is very attuned to his culture and he is deeply rooted in his family. It would be safe to say that both of these factors play a major part in how he defines himself. Everything must be approved by his family, and any girl he is to seriously marry must learn about his culture as well as the language. Not saying… [cont.]
Asked by - Wed Feb 22 01:47:45 2012 - Singles & Dating - 2 Answers - Comments

A. Geez that really sucks. Asian guys like that give the rest of us a bad name. If she really wants him then she's got to start learning. If not, she'd be better off with someone else. Tell her to ask him to give her a chance. I'd personally punch him in the face.
Answered by IZ - Wed Feb 22 03:05:00 2012

Can i collect unemployment in NYS for "being discharged for bad attitude and aggresive behavior"?
Q. I started working at this place about 1 year ago, i've been let go once before for misconduct, specifically insubordination. They rehired me about 3-4 months ago.. two weeks ago i was let go again. it's kind of weird restaurant to work at, its not corporate at all. they have no rules or policies you have to sign. Everyone there back talks each other, even the managers. people tell each other to shutup, people knock things out of each others hands deliberatly, its like being in a mens locker room, almost everyone is consistently disrespectful to each other, but in a joking sort of way. Obviously you cant be late / miss days, but there is no actual rule saying so. they will tell you not to be late, but nothing documented. one co-worker, the… [cont.]
Asked by opleydopley - Fri Feb 20 14:42:11 2009 - Law & Legal - 6 Answers - Comments

A. Question Can i collect unemployment in NYS for "being discharged for bad attitude and aggresive behavior"? most likely NO, this is misconduct. the fact that they gave you a second chance by re-hiring shows the employer did every thing they could and you just couldn't keep the job. your being rehired will not help your case and will, in fact, be held against you. 'ibu guru' - well said...
Answered by michr - Fri Feb 20 15:12:57 2009

What makes a good feminist? Would the following make a good feminist?
Q. If I were to say i would Never say that I think abortion is unethical, ever again I will never question a single of their statistics again I will never question that mothers should get automatic custody I will never question whether a woman who claims it was raped or abused I will "take responsibility" as a man for all the horrible things my gender has done- each time a woman is raped/abused I will blame myself I will support a woman getting any job over me as it promotes "equality" I will automatically assume sexism whenever anything seems like it may possibly be unfair against women. I will assume that women would under fair circumstances be doing exactly as good at men at everything or better, unless feminists do not… [cont.]
Asked by Number Johnny 4 - Fri Jan 16 16:28:01 2009 - Gender & Women's Studies - 7 Answers - Comments

A. That would make you whipped, dude, and while they may appreciate your efforts they wouldn't respect you. Think for yourself even if it means going against the majority.
Answered by Blue Eyed Christian - Fri Jan 16 16:37:41 2009

WHat do you think of my book report?
Q. Glenn Beck's Arguing with idiots how to stop small minds and big government. #1 new york times best seller Glenn beck comes back yet again with another new york times best seller arguing with idiots, is where Mr. Beck explains when a liberal mind comes at you with a question that catches you off guard, he explains how to talk so sense into them. Mr. Beck also explains the evils of big government. why our government try to: take away our guns, tell us that using red pens on our children's school papers is bad for their self-esteem, telling us that using green cars is the only way to save the planet, and that illegal immigration is good for America because these are the kind of jobs Americans don't want ( which is NOT true!) and all the… [cont.]
Asked by CpFishy - Fri Nov 20 18:08:07 2009 - Polls & Surveys - 1 Answers - Comments

A. That is excellent!
Answered by G.W. loves winter! - Fri Nov 20 19:53:56 2009